Top 10 Tips To Give Women An Orgasm

Written by Michael Webb - The Romantic Himself

Did you know that women can experience different types of orgasms and can even
have multiple orgasms? It’s true! Unfortunately, many women can go years
without an orgasm from their partner, and we all know how hard it is to satisfy
a woman.

Here are 10 tips to increase the chances she'll reach climax, including the
secret to multiple orgasms:

Start outside the bedroom - Want to increase the chances she'll
orgasm? When was the last time you surprised her with a little drawing, letter
or flowers and sent them to her at work? Believe it or not, creative and romantic
gestures DO turn women on because love and lovemaking are interconnected in
a woman’s brain. Do this and you can bet-your-bottom-dollar you'll be
doing more than just eating dinner when she walks in the door! :)

Relax her - It’s very hard for women to orgasm if they
are stressed. Give her a quick back massage. Rub her shoulders, upper back and
neck to melt away the tension.

Ignore the vagina - Did you know that prolonged foreplay actually
increases the chances of her coming? That's right. By kissing, caressing and
touching her LONGER, you’ll build the sexual tension and often the anticipation
will be very powerful.

Change your focus - If you focus all your attention on the
woman first, you'll make love to her much more passionately. Think about it!
If you've finished first and decide to help her come, you won't have the enthusiasm
and passion that's needed to keep her hot and turned on.

Tip to last longer - Of course the first step to help her
reach orgasm is by not coming. The best way I've found to not come is: Penetrate
as normal and when you feel like you're about to come, simply move your hips
in a circular motion (like swaying a hula hoop) and wait until the “little
guys” subside again. Now continue pleasuring. :D

Don't use lubricants - Women have a natural lubricant that
fills the vagina when they're turned on. By using a product substitute, you're
only fooling yourself. Without products, you’ll instantly know if things
are working; but with them, you can never be sure.

Never too much clitoris - Did you know that once you've stimulated
the clitoris for some time, a little thing called the clitoral hood will actually
come out and cover the clitoris to protect it from further direct stimulation?
(And no, I'm not making this up!) The point is, once the clitoris is fully stimulated,
make sure you pleasure the G-spot next, whether it be with your hand, tongue
or penis.

Find and stimulate the G spot - The G-spot is a zone that
feels like the roof of your mouth and is located about 2 inches inside the vagina
on the topside. (On the underside of her stomach.) There are two basic ways
you can pleasure the G. With your fingers by doing a “come here”
motion or with a love position that helps hit the G-spot…

Use the best position - Not all love positions are made equal.
The best one for women is the reverse missionary (woman on top). This is probably
the easiest position for a woman to climax because she can control the friction
to her clitoris and/or G-spot.

Give her oral sex - The single best way to help a woman reach
orgasm, even multiple orgasms, is by going down on her (cunnilingus). While
at first I didn’t believe it, countless studies have been done to prove
this fact. Oral sex is easier and much more satisfying for women than intercourse
is. Try the ABC’s with your tongue, ask what she likes, and mix it up
with lots of different movements! However be VERY careful! With over 6,000 nerve
endings in the clitoris, make sure you know everything there is to know before
poking your tongue around there, otherwise it could be really painful and, even
worse, spoil the mood.

So there you have it – 10 tips you can start using right away to give
women the most earth-shattering experience of their lives.
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Why Is It Difficult for Women to Reach an Orgasm?

According to reports, roughly 70% of women don’t reach an orgasm during intercourse. Although that figure in itself is shocking, it also makes you wonder about how many women never orgasm at all (i.e., intercourse or not)!


A lot of flack fall on men on why women don’t experience an orgasm but truth be told, women have a lot to do about this as well whether they realize it or not.


6 Reasons Why Women DON’T Climax


There are many reasons why women don’t reach sexual climax. Some of them maybe men’s faults but a lot can be because of her too…


Foreplay? What foreplay?

Foreplay is extremely important. For women, making love begins in the mind and if you don’t ‘condition’ her mind for sex, then chances are she won’t be sexually reciprocating in bed too. Furthermore, women really do need more time than men to reach an orgasm; so foreplay is actually your way of extending your own sexual stamina.


She’s thinking too much!

Women are natural multi-taskers. Unfortunately, they’re so used to thinking and doing several things at the same time that they find it hard to simply be ‘in the moment’ during sex. If most men can be very ‘in the zone’ during sex, women seem to have various thoughts running through their heads all the time (e.g., home chores that need to be done, kids’ homework, dirty laundry, etc.).


She’s full of… insecurities.

Women have many body image issues. While you may adore her, her mind is probably worried about at least three different things as you undress her: Is the light revealing any cellulite? Are my ‘love handles’ protruding? Does he think my breasts are too small/big?


If body image anxiety is not in her head, then she may be thinking about things such as “I didn’t shower yet, I hope I smell good… especially down there.”, or “I didn’t pee. I hope I don’t embarrass myself.”


ALL these thoughts are making her focus on the wrong things! It’s taking attention away from sexual pleasure and into sexual insecurities. And when a woman is in this mode, it’s almost impossible to her focus on reaching her own climax!


She really doesn’t know her own body.

There is a certain art form to making love to a woman’s body. It really does have a lot of mysterious curves, spots and turns. Sadly, many women don’t indulge in a lot of ‘self exploration’ when it comes to sex. As such, it’s hard to guide you on what makes her feel good or which techniques really turn her on. And really, if she doesn’t know her own body, how can you be expected to instinctively know what brings her pleasure, right?


The best thing is… it’s never too late to learn! Why don’t you BOTH explore her body? Don’t rush anything and try everything. See what turns her on best and use that knowledge to make her reach her orgasm. Make it your sexual quest! However, here are some clues to save you a few steps…

YOU’re not paying attention!

True, men are not mind-readers. Unfortunately, many women are not great communicators in bed as well so we have a little problem here. Compounding this problem is of course that favorite female bedroom habit of ‘faking orgasms’. As a result, YOU think that what you’re doing is great when in reality you may not even be close!


To solve this particular problem, try to develop a certain ‘sexual code’ between you two. For instance, a slight squeeze on your arm means “You’re doing great! Pls. keep doing it!”; while nails on your skin or arm mean “enough of that!”. You will receive more squeezes, however, if you know some important facts. Click here to learn more...

YOU’re changing ‘techniques’ too fast.

Men like to try different sexual positions and that’s great but sometimes you may be changing just a bit too fast. Women need to get accustomed to a certain ‘rhythm’ before sexual pleasure begins to climb. If you keep shifting positions, she will either (a) never find the position that brings her an orgasm, (b) lose the sexual pleasure she was experiencing in the previous position or (c) be so frustrated that even if you go back to the same position, she may not be that sexually aroused again.

So keep this in mind: when it comes to female orgasm it’s not just location, location, location… it’s also about repetition, repetition, repetition.


Hopefully this list of potential reasons why your partner is not reaching an orgasm paves the way for discussion between the two of you. Don’t focus on why she’s not reaching an orgasm. Instead, focus on what you guys are going to do, so that she does reach her climax. That’s a more positive approach and lot more fun too! Learn creative and easy ways to do it here…

Myth 5: Women should only reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse.

This is definitely not true but it's a myth that has caused us to take women's sexual needs for granted for a long time.

This myth actually started with Sigmund Freud, the developer of psychoanalysis, who had recognized that women could easily reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation.

Freud dismissed this type of stimulation as juvenile and believed it was important for women to become more sexually mature by focusing only on vaginal stimulation to reach orgasms.

The problem is that the vagina was not designed for orgasms. It does not have the concentrated nerve endings that one finds in the clitoris or in the head of a penis, for example.

As a result of Freud's determination, women who could not reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse were considered to have some type of psychological impairment. All sorts of methods were devised in an attempt to “liberate” women from their reliance on the clitoris for sexual pleasure.

Only in recent decades has society begun talking openly about the women's right to enjoy sex and to reach orgasm in whatever manner worked for her.

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Myth 4: There's nothing wrong with faking orgasms.

The majority of women sincerely believe this myth, but the truth is there is something very wrong with faking orgasms.

First, faking an orgasm is a form of lying to your partner. The woman is telling him that he has achieved something which she knows he has not.

While that may make him happy or may make him feel good about himself temporarily, in the long run any lie will hurt the relationship because it will eventually be discovered. No matter how good our intentions lying during a relationship is never going to make it stronger.

Second, women who fake orgasms because their partners are not helping them reach climax are denying themselves pleasure wrongly. Faking orgasms not only interrupts a woman's enjoyment of the actual intercourse, it also prevents the man from trying other ways to please her. From his perspective, the sex is great.

The only way to have a mutually satisfying sexual and non-sexual relationship is through honesty.

Although problems in the bedroom can be hard to discuss, bringing them up and working through them will strengthen the relationship and will make the sex better for both partners.
Tomorrow:
Myth 5: Women should only reach orgasm through vaginal intercourse.

Myth 3: A Woman can reach orgasm more easily if her partner has a large penis.

Men who have worried for eons about the size of their penis can relax.
The truth is that size really doesn't matter all that much. Since only the first two inches of a woman's vagina are sensitive to stimulation, anything over that amount is useless during intercourse, at least from the woman's physical perspective.
In fact, when men are overly concerned with the size of their penis and whether it's sufficient, their minds aren't focused on pleasuring their partner and that is no way to experience female orgasm.
A survey done by the Kinsey Institute found that the average size of an erect penis measured from the tip to where it connects with the rest of the body is 6.16 inches in length. The girth of an erect penis is 4.84 inches on average.
Both of these statistics are come as a surprise to men and to women who have been convinced by our culture (and possibly pornographic movies and magazines) that the average size of an erect penis is eight or nine inches. That same Kinsey study actually found that less than 2% of men have penises which meet that requirement.
Remember whether a man's penis size is below, above, or just average, he still has the ability to help his partner reach orgasm and that is far more worthy of praise than a few extra inches of penis.
Tomorrow:
Myth 4: There's nothing wrong with faking orgasms.

Myth 2: Women take longer to reach orgasm than men.

This is another common myth which has not been supported by research. The reason people believe this is that they don't understand the female arousal pattern.

Women's arousal patterns are much different than men's and, as a result, they are physically prepared for intercourse later than men are.

The time from optimal arousal to orgasm is pretty much identical for both men and women. The difference is in how long it takes to reach that level of arousal. Because men often don't know how to help their partners get to that point, it does seem to take longer.

Once that's changed, however, men find their partners reach orgasm more quickly and even have multiple orgasms in quick succession.

Tomorrow:
Myth 3: A Woman can reach orgasm more easily if her partner has a large penis.

Myth 1: Some women just can't have orgasms.

While there are women who have never had an orgasm, there is no evidence to suggest some women are incapable of having orgasms. There are two reasons why some women have not had orgasms in their lives.

The first is that for whatever reason they have never masturbated. Masturbation is often a woman's first orgasm experience.

The second is that they simply are not receiving the proper type of genital stimulation. Clitoral stimulation is needed by most women to have an orgasm. Without that stimulation, it most likely isn't going to happen.

There are some women who have psychological blocks when it comes to experiencing sexual pleasure. This may be the result of any number of past events in their lives, but even that does not mean they are physically incapable of having an orgasm. If they worked through those problems, they would be able to engage in orgasm-producing intercourse just like any other woman.

Tomorrow

Myth 2: Women take longer to reach orgasm than men.

5 Shocking Myths About The Female Orgasm Are Literally Ruining Your Sexual Life…”

First I want to thank you for taking the time to read my advice. From now on, you are not alone anymore. I will not rest until you can please your lover with most amazing orgasms she has ever had.

With that said… let´s get started.

In my field, the most common questions I'm asked seem to revolve around female orgasms. Men want to know how to help their partners have orgasms.

Women want to know why they aren't able to have orgasms with their partners. Couples want to know how they achieve simultaneous or multiple orgasms.

It's not surprising that orgasms are such a popular topic. Anyone who has ever experienced an orgasm knows that they feel wonderful and create a feeling not easily duplicated by anything else, particularly when they are achieved in a loving, committed relationship.

What is surprising is that so little is known about female orgasms.

Both men and women come to me with all kinds of misinformation about the subject. Others are completely lacking any kind of information. They don't even know how to get started. Some are disillusioned or frustrated as a result of repeated faked orgasms.

After all this time, I've decided it is time to educate more people about female orgasms.

Now, before you can begin learning anything new about any subject, you must usually un-learn some of what you've been taught in the past.

When that subject is female orgasms, that fact is even more true.

For a long time, female orgasms have been misunderstood by both men and women and that has brought us to a point where a sizable portion of sexually active women have never had an orgasm and even more have never had an orgasm with their partner.

Both groups and their sexual partners are missing out on a wonderful experience, but before you can begin learning the techniques which will generate that elusive orgasm you must first confront some of the most common myths in our culture about female orgasms.

These 5 myths are literally ruining the sex life of THOUSANDS of couples.

After you understand that these are JUST myths (and nothing else) you will finally know that it is possible to please a woman with multiple orgasms every time.

With that said, let´s get started...

Tomorrow The first Myth.
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