Here's a shortcut to more pleasure Part 2

Do you realize that in most cases your lover WON'T actually tell you what pleases them in the bedroom?

Surprised?

In fact, even if you have the best relationship and connection in the world, chances are your partner STILL won't tell you what they desire.

Weird, huh?

HOWEVER... there's actually a way to find out all the things that please your partner and it's much easier than asking them!

Best of all, if you can grasp this concept, it'll help you to have better, longer and more frequent lovemaking.

In short, it will strengthen your intimate connection.

But first...

Why do partners HIDE their turn-ons from their significant other? Two reasons...

First, it can be embarrassing to bring up.

Look at it from your side: You're probably not super-excited about bringing up issues on your lovemaking either.

Second, they want lovemaking that's adventurous and spontaneous.

Imagine if your partner said, "Honey. Can you kiss me more often? And can you kiss me more on my neck?
I really like that. And maybe we should go a bit slower sometimes? Also, I like changing positions a few times during the session too!"

Romantic?

Adventurous?

Spontaneous?

No.

The biggest problem is people usually drag themselves through life and usually follow the same pattern in the bedroom too.

A "good enough" is "good enough" approach.

If your lovemaking sessions feel like a "set routine," then you know exactly what I'm talking about here.

So have you ever stopped to think about what your partner REALLY wants in the bedroom?

Not what you *think* they want or what you *assume* they want, but what they actually want!

It's the key to satisfying and fulfilling lovemaking.

How would you like a sure-fire way to know exactly what pleases your partner without even asking them?

In fact, after understanding this little insight, they'll think you've become some kind of "magic mind reader!"

Ready?

...

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Watch how they pleasure YOU.

Yep, that's it.

Here are some examples and what I mean by this:

- Are their kisses soft, passionate, intense?
- Do they kiss your neck too? How?
- Do they stroke your face?
- Or run their hands over your body softly? Firmly?
- Do they stop to gaze into your eyes?
- Do they say sexy or loving things?

Guess what?

They make love to you this way because they assume you would like it the same way they do.

It's often unconsciously, but that's what's going on.

Pretty simple, huh?

And this simplicity is half the problem.

You see, so many people have unsatisfied intimate relationships because they overlook or disqualify simple advice and conclude that it's... "too simple."

But believe me, there's power in simplicity.

Watch what they do. Do what they do.

That's it.

And from their reactions, you'll see how much they enjoy it and which ones they enjoy the most.

The golden book of lovemaking is right under your nose. All you have to do is open your eyes and look for it.

I'll leave you with some general ideas of what men and women want; but remember, this information can NEVER be a substitute for observing your own partner in action.

MANY MEN LOVE: a woman without inhibitions and an adventurous spirit, one who's willing to try new things (within reason of course.)

Here's a great one: Give him fellatio or manually stroke him around 9 or 10 in the morning.

This is when his testosterone levels are highest for the day, so he'll be more sexually charged. And for better results, also wear something sexy or nothing at all.

He'll enjoy that.

MANY WOMEN LOVE: being loved in creative, romantic and unique ways.

Guys, your lovemaking starts WAY before the bedroom. Do loving things for her and she'll feel much more connected and ready to make love.

What about inside the bedroom? Women are very turned on by passionate kisses and affectionate foreplay, so do lots of that.

But don't stop at these suggestions!

Look at how YOUR partner pleasures you and then give it back to them.

Having said all that...

There are probably only a dozen enjoyable things your partner will reveal to you.

Why? Because chances are they have NEVER tried anything else.

Once you learn how to ignite the most pleasure and passion out of what you already have, you need to continually improve and progress your intimate relationship to higher levels.

If your sexual relationship isn't FLOURISHING, it's WITHERING AWAY... it never stands still.

So the best way to grow your sexual relationship is by introducing new tips, techniques, positions and fun games that you would have never thought of yourself.

Increase The Passion And Intimacy, part 1

Over the next few weeks, you'll learn many tips and
secrets to help increase the passion and intimacy
of your lovemaking.

Here's what you'll learn...


-- Week 1: Why the spark fades and a simple
yet powerful tip to fix it

-- Week 2: How to make your partner feel incredible
and find out exactly what they enjoy without asking
them

-- Week 3: The DEEP inner reason couples fail to
spice up their lovemaking even when they have
dozens of tips to use

-- Week 4: A simple way to make your lovemaking
special and more intimate

-- Week 5: Twelve actual tips straight from my
lovemaking tips book


So let's get into today's lesson...

Listen closely because I'm about to share a secret
with you about lovemaking and intimacy that most
couples will go their entire love lives without
ever understanding.

Here's why it's critical that you discover this
secret RIGHT NOW...

This simple yet powerful insight could mean the
difference between hot, passionate and steamy
lovemaking.

Or...

Dull and routine lovemaking that slowly becomes
less frequent and then completely DIES--which can
lead to distance and even a break up.

The truth is, it doesn't have to be so difficult
when it comes to a passionate love life.

So let's begin...

Do you remember the first few months of your
relationship?

It's that time where all you can do is think about
your lover day-and-night.

During this time:

- You want to spend every moment with them.
- You have endless energy
- The world seems more beautiful
- You are unbelievably happy

Bottom line: It felt amazing.

But it's no coincidence that after about 6 - 18
months, this stage of the relationship withers away
and completely DIES.

And boy does it HIT HARD!!

- Your initial "feelings of intoxication" disappear
- Their little habits start to irritate you more
- And your lovemaking starts to lose its spark

In the end: You make love less often and with less
enthusiasm.

It's a real bummer, right?

In fact, this is also the time that many
relationships will very likely end. Why?

Because many people get confused and think that
ONLY those initial feelings are "true love."

The media and friends have associated "love" with
that intense and uncontrollable emotion... that
intoxicating feeling.

And when this feeling "wears off," many people
think they are not in love anymore!

Wrong.

When this feeling disappears, your love is maturing
and progressing. It's a normal stage of the
relationship.

That's right; you heard me!

Losing the spark in a relationship is NORMAL!

It's no one's fault. It's just destined to happen.

And because you understand this now, you can
confidently pave the way to make things hot and
passionate again... and keep it that way.

So how do we actually spark it again?

While it's impossible to bring back those initial
feelings forever, you can make them pop up again
and again, adding new fuel and fire to your
relationship.

You can recreate enthusiasm and passion over and
over again.

And the BEST WAY to bring back that "honeymoon"
stage in your lovemaking is to have lots of new
lovemaking ideas ready at your disposal.

That's the secret.

Have an abundance of NEW tips and techniques ready
to try when you feel the passion wearing thin, so
you can keep your intimate relationship exciting.

You may even bring back the "in love" feeling for
several weeks by trying just one new idea, tip or
technique.

Now how would you like an almost sure-fire way to
get your partner excited about trying new things
without even talking about it... as if by surprise?

MAKE LOVE IN A NEW LOCATION.

This works so well because you're adding new
excitement and adventure to your relationship
without really doing anything that's different.

Here are some examples...

1. Surprise them with 'gifts of pleasure' as they
get out of the shower or when they are in the car
about to leave for work.

2. If you always make love in the bedroom, do it in
the living room.

3. Add some excitement by kissing them and slowly
transitioning into lovemaking in the backyard or in
the rain.

(Of course, all of these depend on the privacy of
your home and both of your adventure levels.)

Now, please don't discount this because it's
simple. There is a lot of power in this one tip.

You can make love exactly the SAME WAY you always
do but in a NEW PLACE.

And what will happen then?

Your lover will want MORE. :D

At this stage, it'll only be natural for them to
try new things. And that's when you can suggest
some new things or even some of the tips you've
found!

Trust me, if your lovemaking has become stale or
you just want to bring back that spark it once had,
doing it in a new place will really make it a
memorable occasion for both of you.

You'll make love that's more passionate, intense
and exciting.

See how easy it is to add spice to your life
without going overboard or rushing it?

If need be, you can take small steps and build your
sexual confidence to try new things over time. The
point is to just GET STARTED.

next week, we'll discuss a way to find a dozen or
two new tips and techniques that your partner
ALREADY LOVES.

You don't want to miss it. That's all for today.

3 Ways To Intensify You Orgasms and Intimacy During Lovemaking

Did you know that one of the best ways to intensify orgasms and the overall
lovemaking experience is by having prolonged foreplay?

It's true. Including "prolonged foreplay," you're about to learn
three ways to add new levels of passion and excitement to your lovemaking that
will bring you and your partner even closer. So here we go!

1. Prolong your foreplay

An extended period of foreplay amplifies your sexual experience because it
gives you time to build up sexual anticipation. Why does this work? It's just
human nature. Think about a big event in your life. Whether it be a party, a
holiday, or a major movie launch, chances are that you were so excited by the
buildup and buzz that it made the experience 10 times better.

Well, the same rules apply to making love. So next time you spend some time
under the sheets, make a conscious effort to explore your partner’s body.
Leave a trail of kisses all over their body, run your fingers along their skin
and gaze lovingly into their eyes.

The more time you spend devoted to foreplay, the greater the experience for
both of you. And if you want to feel the magic even more then...

2. Try new things with a "twist"

Now don’t get me wrong here, I'm not talking about JUST trying a new
lovemaking position, tip, technique or even location. While these things would
definitely spice things up, you can make your experience even more fulfilling,
simply by using a little added creativity.

For example: Why not learn a new technique––pack a picnic and head
to a beautiful park for the day. And if you find a private spot, who knows what
might end up happening? :D Going on dates like these helps to bring back the
magic that made you fall in love in the first place.

3. Play bedroom games

Tasteful, fun and alluring sex games are one of the best ways to intensify
orgasms and the entire lovemaking experience. Not only are they extremely fun
and have a lot of 'replay value,' but they actually accomplish BOTH the other
tips at the same time too!

Because when you play a sex game you…

1. Automatically extend foreplay in a fun and interesting way

2. Try new things that the game tells you to do

And even while some games only consist of familiar tips and moves, you'll be
using them in new scenarios, which actually makes them feel new.

Maybe you’ll use a deck of cards or dice to create your own passionate
play. Perhaps you’ll adapt a sport game for the bedroom. Or maybe you’ll
just want to use your bodies as the props. It doesn’t matter. Simply get
excited and unleash some creativity!

So if you want to create a magical experience, remember there’s no better
way than playful game that combines both prolonged foreplay and trying new things.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of "100 Sex Games For Couples," a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion and intimacy to your experience.
To read more, visit: 100 Great Sex Games for couples

100 Great Sex Games: Keeping the Fire Alive in the Bedroom and Beyond

Do you remember when you and your special someone were first together, the early days in your relationship when you couldn’t keep your hands off each other and every one around knew the two of you were newlyweds, madly in love?

What if you could still enjoy the terrific sex life you had during the honeymoon period? Would your relationship be more fulfilling if you could improve your sex life? Would you be a happier person if you had a better sex life? Studies have shown that physical intimacy not only improves your relationship and brings you closer, a satisfying sex life also builds your immune system, helps you sleep, reduces tension, and is responsible for a number of other health benefits.

After a few years, most relationships fall into a normal routine way of life and the relationship becomes nothing more than part of that routine. Sex becomes an ordinary, often rushed, experience and foreplay is a term long forgotten after the first baby. So, is it really possible to enjoy the same bedroom fun you had when you were first together? Can you really, after 15 years and 2 children, experience the same feelings you did on your honeymoon?

Revitalizing your relationship and spicing up your sex life is crucial to your happiness and it is so easy to do. Make having fun in the bedroom a priority in your relationship. Set aside plenty of time for romance at least once a week. You and your partner need time to enjoy the company of one another, especially intimately, or your relationship will suffer.

Remember that the key to having a better sex life is unique and exciting foreplay. Research has proven that the most passionate, hottest sexual encounters most often occur after an intense and electrifying period of evocative foreplay, sometimes lasting for hours and even beginning far away from the bedroom.

Foreplay doesn’t have to be overly complicated. There’s no need to dress in costumes and pretend to be Tarzan and Jane. The most beneficial tips for great foreplay are keep it simple, break away from your normal actions, and concentrate on making your partner feel impassioned with desire.

Excitement builds when you experience something new. Sex games are designed to go beyond your typical bedroom fun by initiating new and unusual situations and experiences. Playing sex games on a regular basis is one of the best, and most simple, ways to improve your sex life.

100 Great Sex Games provides a variety of games, so the collection is suitable for any couple, and each game promises an evening of intensely satisfying sex. It could never be easier to once again experience a terrific sex life, as well as overall health and happiness, just like when you were first in love. Download 100 Great Sex Games today!