100 Great Sex Games For Couples

Here's a shortcut to more pleasure Part 2

noreply@blogger.com (Michael G Schurmann) — Fri, 19 Dec 2008 03:11:00 +0000

Do you realize that in most cases your lover WON'T actually tell you what pleases them in the bedroom?

Surprised?

In fact, even if you have the best relationship and connection in the world, chances are your partner STILL won't tell you what they desire.

Weird, huh?

HOWEVER... there's actually a way to find out all the things that please your partner and it's much easier than asking them!

Best of all, if you can grasp this concept, it'll help you to have better, longer and more frequent lovemaking.

In short, it will strengthen your intimate connection.

But first...

Why do partners HIDE their turn-ons from their significant other? Two reasons...

First, it can be embarrassing to bring up.

Look at it from your side: You're probably not super-excited about bringing up issues on your lovemaking either.

Second, they want lovemaking that's adventurous and spontaneous.

Imagine if your partner said, "Honey. Can you kiss me more often? And can you kiss me more on my neck?
I really like that. And maybe we should go a bit slower sometimes? Also, I like changing positions a few times during the session too!"

Romantic?

Adventurous?

Spontaneous?

No.

The biggest problem is people usually drag themselves through life and usually follow the same pattern in the bedroom too.

A "good enough" is "good enough" approach.

If your lovemaking sessions feel like a "set routine," then you know exactly what I'm talking about here.

So have you ever stopped to think about what your partner REALLY wants in the bedroom?

Not what you *think* they want or what you *assume* they want, but what they actually want!

It's the key to satisfying and fulfilling lovemaking.

How would you like a sure-fire way to know exactly what pleases your partner without even asking them?

In fact, after understanding this little insight, they'll think you've become some kind of "magic mind reader!"

Ready?

...

...

Watch how they pleasure YOU.

Yep, that's it.

Here are some examples and what I mean by this:

- Are their kisses soft, passionate, intense?
- Do they kiss your neck too? How?
- Do they stroke your face?
- Or run their hands over your body softly? Firmly?
- Do they stop to gaze into your eyes?
- Do they say sexy or loving things?

Guess what?

They make love to you this way because they assume you would like it the same way they do.

It's often unconsciously, but that's what's going on.

Pretty simple, huh?

And this simplicity is half the problem.

You see, so many people have unsatisfied intimate relationships because they overlook or disqualify simple advice and conclude that it's... "too simple."

But believe me, there's power in simplicity.

Watch what they do. Do what they do.

That's it.

And from their reactions, you'll see how much they enjoy it and which ones they enjoy the most.

The golden book of lovemaking is right under your nose. All you have to do is open your eyes and look for it.

I'll leave you with some general ideas of what men and women want; but remember, this information can NEVER be a substitute for observing your own partner in action.

MANY MEN LOVE: a woman without inhibitions and an adventurous spirit, one who's willing to try new things (within reason of course.)

Here's a great one: Give him fellatio or manually stroke him around 9 or 10 in the morning.

This is when his testosterone levels are highest for the day, so he'll be more sexually charged. And for better results, also wear something sexy or nothing at all.

He'll enjoy that.

MANY WOMEN LOVE: being loved in creative, romantic and unique ways.

Guys, your lovemaking starts WAY before the bedroom. Do loving things for her and she'll feel much more connected and ready to make love.

What about inside the bedroom? Women are very turned on by passionate kisses and affectionate foreplay, so do lots of that.

But don't stop at these suggestions!

Look at how YOUR partner pleasures you and then give it back to them.

Having said all that...

There are probably only a dozen enjoyable things your partner will reveal to you.

Why? Because chances are they have NEVER tried anything else.

Once you learn how to ignite the most pleasure and passion out of what you already have, you need to continually improve and progress your intimate relationship to higher levels.

If your sexual relationship isn't FLOURISHING, it's WITHERING AWAY... it never stands still.

So the best way to grow your sexual relationship is by introducing new tips, techniques, positions and fun games that you would have never thought of yourself.

Increase The Passion And Intimacy, part 1

noreply@blogger.com (Michael G Schurmann) — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 20:06:00 +0000

Over the next few weeks, you'll learn many tips and
secrets to help increase the passion and intimacy
of your lovemaking.

Here's what you'll learn...

-- Week 1: Why the spark fades and a simple
yet powerful tip to fix it

-- Week 2: How to make your partner feel incredible
and find out exactly what they enjoy without asking
them

-- Week 3: The DEEP inner reason couples fail to
spice up their lovemaking even when they have
dozens of tips to use

-- Week 4: A simple way to make your lovemaking
special and more intimate

-- Week 5: Twelve actual tips straight from my
lovemaking tips book

So let's get into today's lesson...

Listen closely because I'm about to share a secret
with you about lovemaking and intimacy that most
couples will go their entire love lives without
ever understanding.

Here's why it's critical that you discover this
secret RIGHT NOW...

This simple yet powerful insight could mean the
difference between hot, passionate and steamy
lovemaking.

Or...

Dull and routine lovemaking that slowly becomes
less frequent and then completely DIES--which can
lead to distance and even a break up.

The truth is, it doesn't have to be so difficult
when it comes to a passionate love life.

So let's begin...

Do you remember the first few months of your
relationship?

It's that time where all you can do is think about
your lover day-and-night.

During this time:

- You want to spend every moment with them.
- You have endless energy
- The world seems more beautiful
- You are unbelievably happy

Bottom line: It felt amazing.

But it's no coincidence that after about 6 - 18
months, this stage of the relationship withers away
and completely DIES.

And boy does it HIT HARD!!

- Your initial "feelings of intoxication" disappear
- Their little habits start to irritate you more
- And your lovemaking starts to lose its spark

In the end: You make love less often and with less
enthusiasm.

It's a real bummer, right?

In fact, this is also the time that many
relationships will very likely end. Why?

Because many people get confused and think that
ONLY those initial feelings are "true love."

The media and friends have associated "love" with
that intense and uncontrollable emotion... that
intoxicating feeling.

And when this feeling "wears off," many people
think they are not in love anymore!

Wrong.

When this feeling disappears, your love is maturing
and progressing. It's a normal stage of the
relationship.

That's right; you heard me!

Losing the spark in a relationship is NORMAL!

It's no one's fault. It's just destined to happen.

And because you understand this now, you can
confidently pave the way to make things hot and
passionate again... and keep it that way.

So how do we actually spark it again?

While it's impossible to bring back those initial
feelings forever, you can make them pop up again
and again, adding new fuel and fire to your
relationship.

You can recreate enthusiasm and passion over and
over again.

And the BEST WAY to bring back that "honeymoon"
stage in your lovemaking is to have lots of new
lovemaking ideas ready at your disposal.

That's the secret.

Have an abundance of NEW tips and techniques ready
to try when you feel the passion wearing thin, so
you can keep your intimate relationship exciting.

You may even bring back the "in love" feeling for
several weeks by trying just one new idea, tip or
technique.

Now how would you like an almost sure-fire way to
get your partner excited about trying new things
without even talking about it... as if by surprise?

MAKE LOVE IN A NEW LOCATION.

This works so well because you're adding new
excitement and adventure to your relationship
without really doing anything that's different.

Here are some examples...

1. Surprise them with 'gifts of pleasure' as they
get out of the shower or when they are in the car
about to leave for work.

2. If you always make love in the bedroom, do it in
the living room.

3. Add some excitement by kissing them and slowly
transitioning into lovemaking in the backyard or in
the rain.

(Of course, all of these depend on the privacy of
your home and both of your adventure levels.)

Now, please don't discount this because it's
simple. There is a lot of power in this one tip.

You can make love exactly the SAME WAY you always
do but in a NEW PLACE.

And what will happen then?

Your lover will want MORE. :D

At this stage, it'll only be natural for them to
try new things. And that's when you can suggest
some new things or even some of the tips you've
found!

Trust me, if your lovemaking has become stale or
you just want to bring back that spark it once had,
doing it in a new place will really make it a
memorable occasion for both of you.

You'll make love that's more passionate, intense
and exciting.

See how easy it is to add spice to your life
without going overboard or rushing it?

If need be, you can take small steps and build your
sexual confidence to try new things over time. The
point is to just GET STARTED.

next week, we'll discuss a way to find a dozen or
two new tips and techniques that your partner
ALREADY LOVES.

You don't want to miss it. That's all for today.

Book Reviews

noreply@blogger.com (Michael G Schurmann) — Thu, 04 Dec 2008 15:00:00 +0000

Popping the Question

The most popular collection of proposal ideas. Over 100 winning stories - photographs included. Relationship expert and best-selling author, Michael Webb ran a contest for the world's greatest marriage proposal and over 7000 entries flooded in. From that collection he chose over 100 of the most creative, unique and romantic stories to share. He adds his romance expertise by giving valuable pointers and do's and don'ts of proposing.

50 Secrets of Blissful Relationships

There are a lot of books on the market that will tell you how to have a good marriage but not many that will share with you the secrets of GREAT marriages. Michael Webb, one of the most popular relationship experts, has studied blissful couples for over two decades. He wanted to know why only a tiny fraction of couples have fantastically happy marriages. He shares 100 traits that nearly all of these couples have in common, including his own blissful marriage of 14 years

100 Great Sex Games for Couples

Research has shown that the intensity and pleasure of orgasms directly correlates with the length and kind of foreplay. This eBook provides fantastic ideas for games that will have the reader having the type of passion and orgasms that they probably have never before experienced. Research has shown that the single best way to intensify orgasms and the overall lovemaking experience is having prolonged foreplay. These 33 sex games and 67 unique variations are guaranteed to bring fun and passion to your relationship like you have never experienced

300 Creative Dates

Have you ever had a dull date? No more. This eBook features nearly 6 years worth of creative date nights. Tips on first dates and asking someone out for a date too. Have you ever been on a dull date? No more! This book provides six years worth of weekly dates, most costing less than $20. Michael Webb's ingenious ideas as well as ideas of contributors make this book a virtual bible of creative dating.

Getting Him Back

Have you broken up with the love of your life and desperately want him back? OR… Are you together but feel that he may betray or leave you one day, so you want to know what to do should anything happen in the future?If so, then this may be the most important letter you ever read.

Better Way to Date

The way most people date actually hurts their relationship without them realizing it. Oprah expert, Michael Webb reveals the dating techniques and styles used by those who end up having the best marriages. The way most people go about the dating "game" actually destroys relationships. Michael Webb shows how you can successfully find and date your perfect mate while avoiding the pitfalls that cause heartbreaks and headaches. Material includes a 27 page workbook that helps you plan and execute perfect dating techniques.

500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets

Finally, a book of lovemaking tips that isn't raunchy or crude. Since it was launched in late 2003, it has been a huge seller. If you have a Christian audience, they will absolutely love it as there aren't any other books on the subject written with Christian morals and values in mind. If you want to drive your partner wild, this book will show you how. It includes amazing oral sex techniques, stimulating lovemaking positions, and creative and erotic ways to arouse, excite and explode your mate. You will find it useful whether you are preparing for your first time or you are a seasoned lover.

Lick by Lick, The True Art Of Cunningulus

Did you know that…

• While only 25% of women regularly achieve orgasm from traditional vaginal penetration, 81% of women reach orgasm from cunnilingus?

• and 88% of married women say cunnilingus is their preferred and most enjoyable sexual act? (Masters and Johnson)

Is that eye-opening or what?

1000 Questions For Couples

What you ABSOLUTELY MUST know about the person you are with. This eBook also comes with a free 300 Days of Questions e-course. Whether you are doing a pre-marital inventory or simply wanting to know your spouse more deeply, these questions will prompt wonderful discussions and will help reveal who you really are. This book covers topics including: Personality, Feelings & Emotions Favorites Pets Attractions Health, Food & Well Being Vacations Morals, Convictions and Beliefs Religion & Spiritual Matters Car & Driver Holidays & Celebrations Home & Home Life Past & Future Hobbies & Entertainment Love, Romance & Date Nights Friends & Family Communication Career and Education Money Relationships - Past & Present Children & Child Rearing Wedding & Honeymoon Sex .

All Around The House

.of course the longer you've been together, the harder it is to keep your lovemaking exciting and hot. You try a new position, technique or location but…

…after trying it a few times, it becomes routine and mechanical like everything else you've tried. And it's annoying because you know that frequent, quality sex plays a big part in keeping your relationship fulfilling and strong.

On the other hand, you may already have good sex and just want some new and exciting ideas for your repertoire. The longer you've been together, the harder it is to keep your lovemaking exciting and hot

Now, what if I told you that you already have 100's of quick and easy ways to make your lovemaking passionate again, right under your nose? Something so simple that even I missed it!That's right! Right inside your very house…

There Are 100's of Household Items…You Can Use To Spice Things Up. How?

Blow by Blow

Let's face it, all men love oral sex BUT did you know that some even class=underline>prefer it over intercourse?

Why? Well, because the combination of licks, sucks and strokes feels amazing, it allows him to enjoy pleasure without the pressure to perform and fellatio is a great quickie, just to name a few.

And let's be honest here, you may not be "super enthusiastic" and even a little nervous about giving him oral sex, but you know how much it would mean to him and your relationship if you did.

In fact, without oral sex, it's no wonder so many couples have such unfulfilling sex lives. They're missing out on a major aspect of sex!

And just imagine all the deep, passionate and sensual kisses he'll give you while he says how much he loves you. Not to mention, he'll probably want to return the favor back to you too.

So ultimately, quality oral sex will help strengthen your relationship and help you get closer to your partner than ever before.

The Female Orgasm Revealed

The Female Orgasm Revealed, an e-book made to help men satisfy their lovers…and believe me: there are A LOT of men out there who have NO IDEA on how to do it.Gabrielle did a lot of research before she wrote the book. Here are but three facts you must know

Women fake an orgasm; men don’t. Almost three out of every four women have faked an orgasm.

Fact: men are worried for not being able to give their lovers an orgasm.

Women cheat: One out of every two women will cheat on their partner because they are not able to reach an orgasm with him.

Sexual Skills For The Christian Husband

Husband has already helped thousands of Christian couples improve their marriage and sex life. The book reveals step-by-step lovemaking techniques that will help you bring the passion into your life. The information is comprehensive and exact, yet doesn’t involve any vulgarity or pornography. Sex in Christian marriage is one of those real-world gifts that God has given to us that allow us to access the powerful and mystical connections between us and God and each other.

It is my opinion that the more knowledgeable and skillful we become in the area of sex in Christian marriage, the more capable we are of utilizing this gift in a powerful and positive manner.

If you find yourself confused and frustrated, sexually, because of your lack of knowledge or skill, I believe that you (and your spouse) are less likely to experience all of the blessings that God offers to you (and your spouse) through sex.

On the other hand, if you are experiencing sex in Christian marriage’ as God intended, you will find that you, your marriage and your family will all benefit.

Sexual Satisfation For The Christian Wife

Sexual Fun And Games For Christian Couples

Save Your Christian Marriage

I read A LOT of books, and I recommend a few on this site that I think will give you insight, hope, and Christian marriage advice that you can use today. But this book is truly at the top of my list. It offers an alternative to psychology for people seeking A Faith-based approach to marital help.

This book is written by somebody that helps Christian couples for a living. He's seen and heard from a ton of couples and he knows what works.

Tastefully Illustrated Sexual Positions For Christian Couples

Robert Irwin, the author actually hired a Christian artist to draw and illustrate the sexual positions in the book. You see, this is one of the best books you will find on the subject of improving sex in a Christian marriage... Sex doesn't have to be boring but you shouldn't have to look at embarrassing photos of lurid nudity. Lovemaking should be intimate, exciting and wonderful to share with your Christian spouse.

When Your Husband Is Never In The Mood

Getting Her Back

You've just been dumped by your girl. And it hurts really bad. It feels like your heart's been ripped from your chest.

All you want, more than anything else in the world is to get her back. And believe it or not, this book may be the most important thing you ever read to help you get her back.

100 Sex Games Book Review

noreply@blogger.com (Michael G Schurmann) — Wed, 26 Nov 2008 20:26:00 +0000

One of the biggest challenges in a long-term relationship is trying to keep things exciting in the bedroom.

Whether it’s work, the kids or the other 1000 things you need to do, dedicating time to keep the fire burning in your sex life is often easier said than done. Let’s face it, we all have busy lives. Therefore, it makes sense to find ideas that can be used again and again in your lovemaking repertoire.

Lo and behold: “100 Sex Games For Couples.” Sex games really are a great way to keep things fresh and original and often have a longer reusable value than most techniques and positions.

But does this book by Michael Webb really deliver? Let’s find out

To begin, I really liked the introduction of the book and how it talked about intimacy being spiritual, emotional and physical. It really sets the tone for the whole book and emphasizes that these games are really about “making love,” not having sex.

So what about the games themselves? Actually, I was surprised to find there were only 33 sex games in the book. Instead, the other 67 games are variations of the original 33 games, changing the rules of the games to create different versions. While this was a little disappointing at first, after reading the book, I became quite excited to try many of the games myself. There is more than enough in there to keep things exciting for a long time. And of course, some games will keep you entertained longer than others.

However, on the flipside, you won’t find many of these games anywhere else. In that sense, they truly are original and unique. I was really pleased with the level of imagination and creativity when it comes to these games.

You’ll find exciting games such as: a guessing game (one of my personal favorites), a night of passion that starts elsewhere, a game where stories become your drive for pleasure, a card game with a twist, a great game to choose your bedroom clothing, and many others involving food, communicating, touching and sharing intimate moments.

All in all, the book is well worth the asking price, considering it could be the very thing that brings you closer together as a couple!

So the verdict? I LOVE it and I definitely recommend “100 Sex Games For Couples” to any couple that wants to bring back the fire and add that magic touch.

For more information about 100 Sex Games visit:

3 Ways To Intensify You Orgasms and Intimacy During Lovemaking

noreply@blogger.com (Michael G Schurmann) — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 16:01:00 +0000

Did you know that one of the best ways to intensify orgasms and the overall
lovemaking experience is by having prolonged foreplay?

It's true. Including "prolonged foreplay," you're about to learn
three ways to add new levels of passion and excitement to your lovemaking that
will bring you and your partner even closer. So here we go!

1. Prolong your foreplay

An extended period of foreplay amplifies your sexual experience because it
gives you time to build up sexual anticipation. Why does this work? It's just
human nature. Think about a big event in your life. Whether it be a party, a
holiday, or a major movie launch, chances are that you were so excited by the
buildup and buzz that it made the experience 10 times better.

Well, the same rules apply to making love. So next time you spend some time
under the sheets, make a conscious effort to explore your partner’s body.
Leave a trail of kisses all over their body, run your fingers along their skin
and gaze lovingly into their eyes.

The more time you spend devoted to foreplay, the greater the experience for
both of you. And if you want to feel the magic even more then...

2. Try new things with a "twist"

Now don’t get me wrong here, I'm not talking about JUST trying a new
lovemaking position, tip, technique or even location. While these things would
definitely spice things up, you can make your experience even more fulfilling,
simply by using a little added creativity.

For example: Why not learn a new technique––pack a picnic and head
to a beautiful park for the day. And if you find a private spot, who knows what
might end up happening? :D Going on dates like these helps to bring back the
magic that made you fall in love in the first place.

3. Play bedroom games

Tasteful, fun and alluring sex games are one of the best ways to intensify
orgasms and the entire lovemaking experience. Not only are they extremely fun
and have a lot of 'replay value,' but they actually accomplish BOTH the other
tips at the same time too!

Because when you play a sex game you…

1. Automatically extend foreplay in a fun and interesting way

2. Try new things that the game tells you to do

And even while some games only consist of familiar tips and moves, you'll be
using them in new scenarios, which actually makes them feel new.

Maybe you’ll use a deck of cards or dice to create your own passionate
play. Perhaps you’ll adapt a sport game for the bedroom. Or maybe you’ll
just want to use your bodies as the props. It doesn’t matter. Simply get
excited and unleash some creativity!

So if you want to create a magical experience, remember there’s no better
way than playful game that combines both prolonged foreplay and trying new things.

About the Author:

Oprah Love Expert Michael Webb is the author of "100 Sex Games For Couples," a book full of ways to spice up your lovemaking, adding more passion and intimacy to your experience.
To read more, visit: 100 Great Sex Games for couples

Here's Just a Sample of The GamesInside 100 Sex Games For Couples…

noreply@blogger.com (Michael G Schurmann) — Tue, 25 Nov 2008 00:37:00 +0000

A brand new way to play with a deck of cards that will bring about amazing climaxes
An exciting game that leads to lovemaking in new places around the house
A great child's game with a slight change of the rules can be reused for incredible lovemaking possibilities
A game that begins at a restaurant and the sex actions are determined by what's on the menu and what the waiter says
A guessing game that will have you burning with desire in just 10 minutes
A sex game that turns an ordinary, every day experience into 30 minutes of pulsating foreplay
Kings and Queens will have a whole new, erotic meaning with this game
A sex game that guarantees to stimulate your body in new and exciting ways while keeping your partner begging for more
Blindfolds and food always make for great lovemaking - this game puts new twists on the concept
Turn watching that football, basketball or baseball game into an erotic romp. Both of you will be cheering on the teams in a new and surprising way with this game
A twist on an old bar game that will bring burning passions to your loins - and everyone wins at this game
The lingerie game will have one of you begging for action by the time it is over
Play this ball game indoors which will guarantee to have him rock hard and throbbing by the time it is over
And much much more…

100 Great Sex Games: Keeping the Fire Alive in the Bedroom and Beyond

noreply@blogger.com (Michael G Schurmann) — Sun, 23 Nov 2008 21:42:00 +0000

Do you remember when you and your special someone were first together, the early days in your relationship when you couldn’t keep your hands off each other and every one around knew the two of you were newlyweds, madly in love?

What if you could still enjoy the terrific sex life you had during the honeymoon period? Would your relationship be more fulfilling if you could improve your sex life? Would you be a happier person if you had a better sex life? Studies have shown that physical intimacy not only improves your relationship and brings you closer, a satisfying sex life also builds your immune system, helps you sleep, reduces tension, and is responsible for a number of other health benefits.

After a few years, most relationships fall into a normal routine way of life and the relationship becomes nothing more than part of that routine. Sex becomes an ordinary, often rushed, experience and foreplay is a term long forgotten after the first baby. So, is it really possible to enjoy the same bedroom fun you had when you were first together? Can you really, after 15 years and 2 children, experience the same feelings you did on your honeymoon?

Revitalizing your relationship and spicing up your sex life is crucial to your happiness and it is so easy to do. Make having fun in the bedroom a priority in your relationship. Set aside plenty of time for romance at least once a week. You and your partner need time to enjoy the company of one another, especially intimately, or your relationship will suffer.

Remember that the key to having a better sex life is unique and exciting foreplay. Research has proven that the most passionate, hottest sexual encounters most often occur after an intense and electrifying period of evocative foreplay, sometimes lasting for hours and even beginning far away from the bedroom.

Foreplay doesn’t have to be overly complicated. There’s no need to dress in costumes and pretend to be Tarzan and Jane. The most beneficial tips for great foreplay are keep it simple, break away from your normal actions, and concentrate on making your partner feel impassioned with desire.

Excitement builds when you experience something new. Sex games are designed to go beyond your typical bedroom fun by initiating new and unusual situations and experiences. Playing sex games on a regular basis is one of the best, and most simple, ways to improve your sex life.

100 Great Sex Games provides a variety of games, so the collection is suitable for any couple, and each game promises an evening of intensely satisfying sex. It could never be easier to once again experience a terrific sex life, as well as overall health and happiness, just like when you were first in love. Download 100 Great Sex Games today!